Stay or Go Sessions

Your head is a mess and your heart is torn.

Should you STAY or SHOULD YOU GO?

On the one hand you have a wonderful, loving partner, who has been in your life for a while now, who has supported you, loved you, shared beautiful memories with you.

On the other hand he also has someone else, who he probably loves and cares about too.
You love HIM, but you know you can’t carry on like this.
You know something has to change, but what?

Another day passes. Another decision gets parked for tomorrow.
You have realized HE will NEVER make the decision.

There is just no easy way and you can’t find the time to sit with your own thoughts to figure it all out.

You know you need to make a decision. You know you need to figure this out for yourself. You know you need to talk to someone, so you can make the right decision for YOUR life. You know you need to be careful who you discuss this with. There are just so many things going through your mind.

You ask yourself “why is this so hard”?
“Why can’t I even think straight?”
 You tell yourself it’s selfish.

You NEED someone to talk to. Someone who won’t pick a side. Someone who has been through this and could possibly understand what you are going through. Someone confidential.

YES, it really IS POSSIBLE to shift your life from being stuck in a mess and out of out of control to: “I know this won’t be easy, but I feel like I know what I have to do.”  

What’s included in your S.O.G. Session:

A PRE-SESSION brain and heart dump

This would include you sending me some detailed info prior to our session, so that I can understand exactly where you are right now, what your head is saying, what your heart is saying, and what it is you want to achieve with our time together.

GUIDED 1:1 session

A 2-hour session over zoom, where we can discuss your brain and heart dumps to gain more clarity. I will guide you through the process of unravelling the whole situation you have found yourself in. We will seek to gain more clarity on what it is that YOU really want for yourself, and then we will paint different scenarios, in order to figure out what your next steps should be.

Action plan WORKSHEETS TO ASSIST YOU WITH YOUR DECISION MAKING.

After your 1:1 session, you’ll also receive downloadable action plan worksheets to assist you during the days ahead, as well as other tools and tips to assist with your progress.

One week of Voxer (or whatsapp) support

You will also have access to me via Voxer for 1 week following our session, for any guidance or support you need during this time in assisting with making (and sticking to) your decision.

This is YOUR CHOICE and YOUR DECISION.
Only YOU have the power to choose what is right for YOUR life.
NOBODY else has the right to make decisions about YOUR life. Don’t leave it up to THEM!

You owe it to yourself and to the ones you love, to figure out what you want in the end.

I am HIGHLY CONFIDENTIAL, as I KNOW what it’s like to be in a place where you don’t know who to trust any more. I KNOW how scary it is to open up to somebody about the situation. I KNOW how it feels to be judged by people who have never been in your shoes! Believe me, I KNOW. And that is what makes me the best WINGWOMAN you could ever ask for. 

When I say “I’ve got your back” I really mean it!